Self Love

ONE ON ONE WITH ME

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A huge part of self love is not just loving the good and lovable part of ourselves but its about accepting our flaws as well. It is difficult to do so in a society that bashes imperfections. Some of these insecurities are being to thin, too fat, too tall or too short.Our imperfections are part of who we are as individuals, loving one's self has to start with asking , who am I? Why do I love me? These questions are important in evaluating who we truly are because guess what, our insecurities makes us different and unique from everyone. Insecurities play a big role in how we view ourselves and our interaction with others.

Simple Steps to becoming Self Compassionate according to Melanie Greenberg

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mindful-self-express/201706/8-powerful-steps-self-love

Recognize that you are experiencing emotional distress or mental suffering.
Accept that the feeling is there
Imagine what you might feel if you saw a loved one experiencing this feeling.
Challenge your negative story about yourself
Think about how everyone messes up sometimes
Decide what it would take to forgive yourself
Use self-talk to encourage yourself
Be a life coach to encourage yourself

Always remember to challenge yourself by setting goals for yourself,believing in your dreams, meditating regularly and not comparing yourself to others. If you think you need time off for yourself definitely do so ,it is necessary for you health and state of mind.

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